Ashton Deroy

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‘If I have to ask for it. It will be less special.” Seesadieread Then she goes on to describe getting nothing for Mother’s day as a paper cut.

From the perspective of Men.

There are some people who view Yearly Holidays as nothing but a Retail consumer conspiracy. Put me in that camp! If you want something on these days you may have to tell me. I still may not be able to. Cause I am broke. I am student debt & Rent broke. I am Unemployed Broke!

If you want something? Ask for it. Don’t expect people to conform to the culture of your subconscious. Cause not everyone believes the yearly clock dictates visitation, spending and conversations. To quote me on family ‘They just aren’t that pleasant.”

Anti-Social Men are holiday avoidant

This applies to my ex Kaylib. This applies to me as well. We avoid socially intimate family holidays because it makes us resentful. That we have to socialize, that we have to spend money and that we have to do things. As men we are dictated on the job and in our living situations. We don’t want to be dictated in our relationships. We don’t want to be dictated by mainstream culture.

On Behalf of anti-social men?

Please leave us alone on the holidays. We aren’t interested…. We probably are more interested in going to work. Then we are at spending the holidays with the family.

Why we as men are anti-social and low effort?

Cause society is exhausting. Inflation, Climate change and increasing demands of workplace productivity. Family also make demands on your physical appearance. Not everyone is getting ahead. Count me in that boat! On my time off? I just want it to be time off. I want my blogs to generate conversations with others. I don’t necessarily want to be in a performance that I am not dictating.

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